السبت، 27 سبتمبر 2014

Find your inner "ness"

You meet people everyday, have you ever thought of meeting yourself ?? Have you ever thought of taking a journey to discover your own self ??




            A lot of us think that if you have a job with a good salary, a stable and a good social life ,then you are successful and should be satisfied, but I think people who live that way are consumed by life without realizing that and missing a lot of themselves. 
How i did reach this conclusion? Well, you need to look at your life from a different perspective, let me explain to you how ,,,

            Breaking the routine absolutely will not harm the organization of your life, you just need to give yourself more space to explore things in you which did not appear on the surface before, you will discover things about yourself you never thought you have. Add more fun and let some light goes in deep in your soul. How ?? maybe you want to try a few things i do myself.

           Set an hour everyday where you separate yourself from everything around you, sit in a quite place, maybe with a cup of coffee and your favorite chocolate, listen to a quite, peaceful music if you want, or read something for Ralph Waldo Emerson, (( do you know that Emerson's works alone can teach you everything you need about living with grace and happiness )), or choose any other rich book, sink in the words and keep a pen and a paper close, maybe there is a hidden writer inside you waiting to be released.Unleash yourself and set your mind free.It is not a condition that this hour must be at home , you can take a walk or go to the gym for example. Try to oblige yourself to this hour as much as you can.

           You can if you want : we are all born with unlimited potentials and abilities, it is us who restrict them for no reason. In my opinion, there is nothing you can't do or you are not good at, you just need to focus and believe in yourself. for example, you may like to participate in a race but you don't because you think you can't run fats enough. Well, studies showed that a human being uses only 13% of his physical strength. Now you know why some people are athletes and others are not, they simply concentrate on what they sure they have and believe in themselves.

             Try to do things you've never done before : challenge yourself in cooking for example, cook a sophisticated meal or make an elegant desert, YES YOU CAN, prepare the ingredients, follow the recipe and you will succeed, it is not a rocket science after all.

              Make the best of your hidden creativity : open your closet, bring out those outfits which is old or you don't like, use your imagination and change their style, turn them into things that expresses you .Go to the market, buy an embroidery set, watch a few you-tubes and make an embroidered stuff like a purse for example,they will be more valuable to you because you made them, you can give them as special gifts to close friends, or maybe pass them to your sons and grand sons.

                 I'm sure that each one of us has a specific hobby or habit like reading, but why stick yourself to one experience while you are free to do so many more, write poems or prose, read different types of book other than the types you used to, paint , cook , practice yoga , learn a new language , think outside the box, you are full of surprises.
Maybe you say that you can't do that because you don't have time, but no, you can. Organize your life, put yourself at the top of your priority list, pay it forward . Keep in your mind that life will not wait for you to have time and at the same time  you will not remain young forever.A few years later, life will force you to slow down because you are aging and you will find yourself empty with a lot of free time and nothing to do !!!   

               Giving attention to your abilities and hobbies also enhance your self-confidence, increases your positive energy and this leads you to perform your duties with higher efficiency. This ultimately will increase your internal peace and help you solve wisely  any problem you face which will reduces gradually the tension in your life .....     

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